Courses I Teach

I have been a kink, sex, and consent educator for over eight years. I aim to teach every course from an intersectional, trauma informed and risk aware lens. I always hilight negotiation and consent. Please send an email if you are interested in Me teaching at your establishment. I also do private lessons on any of the following topics, email to inquire.

Here are some courses I offer, and what the course covers in a session:

BDSM 101

This course is aimed towards newer players wanting a comprehensive intro to kink, negotiating scenes, and how to get into the social scene.

  • What is BDSM?

  • What is RACK? What is informed consent?

  • Negotiation 101

  • Basic impact yes’s & no’s

  • High-Risk play discussion

  • STIs and BBPs: Risk and Safety

  • How to find other kinky folks!

Impact 101

  • Body charts - where to hit and not hit, what type of impact is safe where

  • Stingy vs. Thuddy

  • Tools: What are they? How do different tools feel?

  • Bruising

  • Risk awareness: illnesses, disabilities, and impact

  • Accidental skin breaking

Needles 101

Introductory needle and blood play intensive workshop

  • Great for those wanting to learn about needles on the giving, receiving, or switching side

  • Risk awareness, body safe and risk zones

  • Negotiating a needle scene

  • BBP’s: What are they, transmission, avoidance

  • Needles: What are they? How do they work?

  • Aseptic space setup

  • How to pierce: cleaning, pinch vs. freehand, removal

  • Safe cleanup practices

  • Live Demo

  • Supervised workshop

Needles 201

  • Needles 101 prerequired

  • Needle torture

  • Stencils

  • Integrating impact, electro, and sensory play with needles

  • Playing with temperature

  • Reinsertions

  • Large gauge needles

Scalpels 101

Introductory scalpel intensive workshop

  • Great for those wanting to learn about scalpels both giving and receiving

  • Risk awareness, body safe and risk zones

  • Negotiating a scalpel scene

  • BBP’s: What are they, transmission, avoidance

  • Scalpel types and uses

  • Aseptic space setup

  • Depth, skin stabilizing

  • How to cut

  • What to do with too deep a cut

  • Safe cleanup practices

  • Live Demo

  • Supervised workshop

Edge Play

Cutting without the actual cut

  • Risk awareness, body safe and risk zones

  • Negotiating a scratchy scene

  • Skin prep

  • Tools to use

  • Tool and space prep

  • Oh no, I accidentally drew blood

  • Cleaning tools

  • Space cleanup

Know Your Rights

This is an informative course for other SW’s, teaching about SW legislation, knowing your rights, knowing what could incriminate you, and how to protect yourself.

Decorative Needle Play

Needles 101 Prereq

  • Risk awareness, body safe and risk zones

  • Negotiating a decorative scene

  • Decoration prep

  • Tools to use, tool prep

  • Stencils and measuring tools

  • How to pierce

  • Piercing monitor duty

  • Cleaning tools

  • Space cleanup